Sometimes Grindr will drop me a good one. These are the fuck notes on one such trick.
I was working Grindr like a good pig bottom and had a hit at a specific distance. That distance generally means the Airport near my house. No big deal, usually it’s good for some juicy pics of something I’ll never get. Turned out this one was BBC headed out for work and would be back Saturday. We chatted it up and he promised to come over and rape me when he got back on Saturday.
Yea right! If I had $1 for everyone who promised to fuck me…… I could buy a Senator! Except we call that Campaign Contributions… whatever.
So Saturday he hits me up and sure enough I manage to get my hole 98% clean by the appointed time of 9pm. I really enjoy an on-time fuck. We agreed to a dim room and he’d walk in and fuck me. Sure enough he did. He stripped down, got hard, lubed up and proceeded to try and tear my ass up. Nice cock, no complaints about the 2% that wasn’t squeaky clean. A little slapping, hair pulling and lots of pounding.
One surprising thing is he kept growling “Take this N Dick white boy”. That is different. I’ve never had that word brought up in sex. One of my Latin buddies who likes big dick of any flavor likes to ask me if I “get any N Dick lately?”. I always chide him for his language and then gossip about where I’m getting it and he tells me what he’s getting.
Like most tops he was done in 5 to 10 minutes. He left, I got in the shower and finished cleaning out.
I find it hard to sexualize the N word. It has too much baggage and I just leave it the fuck alone. It’s hard enough to be a white bottom who likes black dick and not be seen as some sort of inverted racist. No need to juggle explosive words while navigating the mine field of inter-racial sex.
One of my repeat BBC tricks got really offended the one time I brought it up. I had used it in a reverse negative sentence and he went off on me. A reverse negative is “It’s not like I’m Ronald McDonald’s fuck-bitch.” I’ll let you imagine what I might have said. I promise it was not intended to be racist but that’s a touchy word.
I always like clear rules in communication. Makes for easier expectation management. I’m on the fence if I’m gonna fuck him again. It was not the best sex. Really good sex is fluid and passionate. I honestly thought he was someone else at first and only at the last second did I realize who it was. #Slut lol. I had cleaned out preparing for a really well hung guy and so I was not expecting a nice 8 inch cock.
Til next fuck….